Have you ever cheated on your significant other?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

How long have you been married???

Pretty sure this is EXACTLY what he meant.

[wcr3d]

No longer but it was 20+
We all know married does not mean none, it just means you need to work on your timing and her weak points!

[Tambohamilton]

Actually for some people, it means none.

[Alfisti]

How in god's name is there no "Elections Canada" or "Australian Electoral Commission" to oversee the entire process, handle the logistics and operations. You leave it all to the states, that is just utter madness.

Again, your system is bonkers relying on lower levels of government too much. It's just weird, you treat the president like a god but he does fuck all in reality as the states and municipalities have a lot of sway on so many issues.

Bonkers.

[wcr3d]

Talk about off topic

[wcr3d]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Actually for some people, it means none.

Yes, there are all types but I had never actually met one.
Hello and sorry for your loss?

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Actually for some people, it means none.

I'm fortunate to be in the "honeymoon" phase of a new relationship and am currently getting ALL OF IT.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by wcr3d

Yes, there are all types but I had never actually met one.
Hello and sorry for your loss?

Haha, hello, and thank you.

I still haven't cheated, for the record, and nor do I intend to. But times are hard...it really is totally lame having a partner who is just totally uninterested in it. It's weird, because she was at the start, and I've got here just clinging onto hope that things go back to how they were, but I've recently found out that it's not happening. Coming up to the crossroads pretty fast! I also have a good friend who is in a nearly identical position...he finds it tough too, and it may eventually be the end of his marriage too.

Anyhow. Sob story over!

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

I'm fortunate to be in the "honeymoon" phase of a new relationship and am currently getting ALL OF IT.

Enjoy, you lucky lucky lucky lucky....

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Haha, hello, and thank you.

I still haven't cheated, for the record, and nor do I intend to. But times are hard...it really is totally lame having a partner who is just totally uninterested in it. It's weird, because she was at the start, and I've got here just clinging onto hope that things go back to how they were, but I've recently found out that it's not happening. Coming up to the crossroads pretty fast! I also have a good friend who is in a nearly identical position...he finds it tough too, and it may eventually be the end of his marriage too.

Anyhow. Sob story over!

That's a bummer, man. It's supposed to be a romantic relationship and the hot-and-heavy stuff doesn't last forever but still, you're not supposed to end up as roommates.

[vreihen16]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Actually for some people, it means none.

Some say that wedding cake is the greatest crusher of a woman's libido.....

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

That's a bummer, man. It's supposed to be a romantic relationship and the hot-and-heavy stuff doesn't last forever but still, you're not supposed to end up as roommates.

Exactly this. Thank you.

Originally Posted by vreihen16

Some say that wedding cake is the greatest crusher of a woman's libido.....

Haha, yes I've heard that one before We're not actually married, but we live in a house we own together, have 2 kids, etc...essentially married.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Exactly this. Thank you.



Haha, yes I've heard that one before We're not actually married, but we live in a house we own together, have 2 kids, etc...essentially married.

No common-law status in the UK??? I would of thought that's where it started.

[wcr3d]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Haha, hello, and thank you.

I still haven't cheated, for the record, and nor do I intend to. But times are hard...it really is totally lame having a partner who is just totally uninterested in it. It's weird, because she was at the start, and I've got here just clinging onto hope that things go back to how they were, but I've recently found out that it's not happening. Coming up to the crossroads pretty fast! I also have a good friend who is in a nearly identical position...he finds it tough too, and it may eventually be the end of his marriage too.

Anyhow. Sob story over!

Back to my statement, I have found that right before or after their visit with Aunt Flo or is it Irma across the pond? That is the timing part, weak points you’ll have to work on yourself.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

No common-law status in the UK??? I would of thought that's where it started.

I forget where the UK is at with that stuff. Civil partnerships are legally recognised for same-sex couples, but last I can remember they were still a work in progress for hetero couples. I'm really not sure on the details of other things.

Originally Posted by wcr3d

Back to my statement, I have found that right before or after their visit with Aunt Flo or is it Irma across the pond? That is the timing part, weak points you’ll have to work on yourself.

Yeah, I've wondered and tried and asked and dreamt...It's not happening. She's told me so herself; no interest. Sex is for reproduction only...even though she enjoys that at the time...

[Tambohamilton]

Sorry, this is turning into a thread about me whining...someone else chime in about their cheating/not cheating story??

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Enjoy, you lucky lucky lucky lucky....

Thank you, sir. It'll probably end in tears and gunfire, but for now I'm grinning like a butcher's dog.

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by vreihen16

Some say that wedding cake is the greatest crusher of a woman's libido.....

It's been said that there are 3 rings in every marriage. The engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffer-ing.

[1MOREMOD]

Only in other states so doesn't count

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Sorry, this is turning into a thread about me whining...someone else chime in about their cheating/not cheating story??

Had a conversation a couple of decades ago with Wife #2 (alias "The Blister") on an evening a couple of months after we had verbally dissolved our union after coming to the inescapable conclusion that we were beings from different galaxies. We were still cohabitating for the sake of logistics. She came to visit me on the front porch one Spring evening, where the dogs and I had settled in for a relaxing evening during which my Weimaraner "Irv" and I would split a case of beer (okay, I drank 70% of it). She tearfully, and with great anguish, confessed that she had kissed some other guy. I calmly reassured her that she had obviously mistaken me for someone who gave a f*ck.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Only in other states so doesn't count

That's way beyond different area codes; clearly doesn't count! I mean, is that even on topic??

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

She tearfully, and with great anguish, confessed that she had kissed some other guy. I calmly reassured her that she had obviously mistaken me for someone who gave a f*ck.

Nice to know that she regretted it, though...