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Thanks for the replies.
I've tried plenty over the years. I've been pretty fit at times (riding 140+ mi per week, year round), and earlier this year I lost about 6kg (down to 72kg from 78ish)...it changes nothing. Any advances I've tried to make have been met coldly. She'd pull away from me offering a hug, or just grumble if I asked for one.
Last night was tough. Tried to talk it through with her, and explain my feelings. She just got pretty hysterical and we essentially made no progress. However, she has since offered a couple of hugs - that's massive for me and lifts my mood a lot!
I do think she could benefit from some kind of help. I'm not sure what. But I don't think me suggesting she get help would go down well... She doesn't think she's broken. I wish she'd take my efforts to fix things up as a positive effort rather than a problem.
We'll see how it progresses.
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