New to me 2012 X5

[jimf15e]

My wife and I are looking to do a little shuffling of vehicles due to some higher priority life requirements. I'll be selling my M3 and taking her 2012 X5 35i w/ SA package, she'll be getting another SUV. I'm not a big modder but like personalizing things just a bit so I'll be definitely getting some new front reflectors, tinting the front windows to match, getting it coded, and probably getting some titanium kidneys. I'll also be installing my Bel STi-R+ and LI quad from the M3. A few other mods I've been debating:

- not a big fan of the stock steering wheel w/ the Sport Activity package. Is it possible to add the X5M wheel?
- I also don't like the fully blacked out look, so am trying to decide of the titanium kidneys are a good match to a black car with the grey mesh? I don't want black grills and black mesh since it's a BSM car.
- Any other good appearance mods? GP Thunder fogs?

Thanks!