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      08-28-2014, 09:24 AM   #23
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      08-28-2014, 09:25 AM   #24
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Meh, I'm just sour at this point, because I don't know the definition myself. I thought I had, but I thought wrong. I really don't think it will fizzle if you find the right person, I am just being cynical from my own current situation.

Better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all, I suppose.
I never agreed with that quote " better to have love lost, then to have never loved at all".

That's nonsense in my book because losing a loved one sucks, and takes a lot of strength and effort to overcome. That is why it is better to not have loved, than to lose it. My humble opinion, of course.
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Grim don't you have a wife and kid?
dude I'm in my thirties and single, dry for 5+yrs

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Love is simply a word. Because it is a word used to desribe an emotion or feeling, everyone interprets the word "love" differently. This word is used to describe a connection they feel towards something or someone.

Because the word love is used to decribe the connection, and interpreted differently by each individual, only the individual using the word love can know what it means.

Basically, only YOU can know what the word love means, so either you know you love someone or something, or you don't.
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That's true.
What is this emphasis on hurt? I really don't get it.. explain pls
when I saw Jericho's post that said "ask Haddaway" I had NO CLUE that the comment I made was the "group" that sang that song...

it's a real shitty late 80's/early 90's club song.....
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      08-28-2014, 09:28 AM   #27
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I never agreed with that quote " better to have love lost, then to have never loved at all".

That's nonsense in my book because losing a loved one sucks, and takes a lot of strength and effort to overcome. That is why it is better to not have loved, than to lose it. My humble opinion, of course.
That's acceptable. Losing a loved one does suck, probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do to date, but you know what, at the end of the day, I have learned so much from loving this person, that I can take some valuable information from that time to be a better person in the future.
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dude I'm in my thirties and single, dry for 5+yrs


I could swear you posted a pic in OT of a little girl and a woman.
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Meh, I'm just sour at this point, because I don't know the definition myself. I thought I had, but I thought wrong. I really don't think it will fizzle if you find the right person, I am just being cynical from my own current situation.

Better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all, I suppose.
I completely agree with the last sentence. My college crush, who turned out to be a big bitch of a person, I still look back at the short happy several weeks of the 'chase'.. even though she was playing me all along. Wouldn't change it for a thing.
I don't like that person now, never would.. guess it's right time right place, right purpose.. everything else seems an afterthought.

My long term gf - did alot of first-time things .. it was a full relationship .. but lol it was the sex that attracted me first, and last yr of college.. don't regret any of that either .. just honestly two totally different feelings
So is it a 'bonus' or does it really matter even?

Billup, you're young man.. so much time to do what you want. That's enough to get you over anything.. not to be insensitive, hold in there
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Oh lord you guys this isn't pinterest.
Disturbed that you know what pinterest is..
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Damn, everyone beat me to it.


Anywho, love is a fallacy. Figment of the human mind. Just enhanced feeling of infatuation that later dies and fizzles into codependency.
I know what you just went through/are currently going through, but I hope don't you really believe that.
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dude I'm in my thirties and single, dry for 5+yrs



thoughtful.. thanks!




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Don't feel bad at all, Grim. I am in my 30's as well. I can admit to having my heart broken by what I thought was love on a couple of occasions, but being single with no responsibility other than to yourself has it's perks as well.

When the time feels right to settle in, you will know. Until that time comes, just enjoy the freedom and have fun... whatever is fun for you.
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Disturbed that you know what pinterest is..
If you're disturbed then apparently you do too and that's really disturbing.
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yeah I know this song..

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What have you got to lose? A couple tears? Go for it and find out, otherwise, you'll never know.
That's what I thought too, so I actually dug up the courage to msg her a 2nd time after about a week of silence, after the first conversation died.. she replied I'm still nervous as heck but I don't think i could have done it if I didn't have 12yrs on her... lol
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I know what you just went through/are currently going through, but I hope don't you really believe that.
Heh, I really don't, I'm a firm believer in love, that's just me being cynical because of what happened last week.
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a Thai girl who is visiting Hong Kong.
he's probably gone through extensive reassignment surgery......
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I never agreed with that quote " better to have love lost, then to have never loved at all".

That's nonsense in my book because losing a loved one sucks, and takes a lot of strength and effort to overcome. That is why it is better to not have loved, than to lose it. My humble opinion, of course.
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when I saw Jericho's post that said "ask Haddaway" I had NO CLUE that the comment I made was the "group" that sang that song...

it's a real shitty late 80's/early 90's club song.....
dude, you can do this stuff in your sleep... help a brother out

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I could swear you posted a pic in OT of a little girl and a woman.
my niece.. her nanny
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I do online dating with the best of us, but you're pathetic for saying/doing this before you've even met her.
u mean I'm jumping to conclusions... or I'm just sad I don't even know what she feels?
well, I can't control her side .. I'm just wondering what I'm feeling..
if she is not interested .. well what the hell can I do about that?

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Don't feel bad at all, Grim. I am in my 30's as well. I can admit to having my heart broken by what I thought was love on a couple of occasions, but being single with no responsibility other than to yourself has it's perks as well.

When the time feels right to settle in, you will know. Until that time comes, just enjoy the freedom and have fun... whatever is fun for you.
yeah I'm like that now .. I'm not looking for it.. I was just looking to hook up lol .. then I saw her profile ... oh shit .. haven't masturbated in DAYS

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If you're disturbed then apparently you do too and that's really disturbing.
what do they do on there??
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Oh that clears up a lot. Bro your system is clogged, let's get you laid and then you decide what is love is.
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I never agreed with that quote " better to have love lost, then to have never loved at all".

That's nonsense in my book because losing a loved one sucks, and takes a lot of strength and effort to overcome. That is why it is better to not have loved, than to lose it. My humble opinion, of course.
I'm sorry but that's just freakin retahded.

You're going to skip out on one of life's greatest gifts over the fear of something that hasn't happened and may not ever for you?
Is it just with love or do you live the rest of your life in fear too?
I'm kinda surprised to hear this from a self-proclaimed samurai
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Heh, I really don't, I'm a firm believer in love, that's just me being cynical because of what happened last week.
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