lolz this is still going
ok update;
I've since relaxed and taking my daughter out and about; I'll do the usual, "go to the washroom before we leave" ensure she's not filled up with pop.
But on several occasions; if there is no family washroom; (in one of the conference halls Ive gone to) there is a ladies washroom; usually dead so I've taken her in a few times, been empty, once there was a a women in there a curt look at her and a "sorry" mind you this was when daughter was washing her hands
and a couple of times, when I needed to go, I had daughter outside with strict instructions to scream bloody murder if anyone came up to her and also to stay put
well, last 2 times all was well,
so have relaxed down a bit