Guys,
Ended up going with the Avant Garde M510s.
Through their Bespoke program, you can get custom offsets and chose from 20+ two-step finishes (including brushed finishes)
My truck is a MY12 5.0 M-Sport in Carbon Black
I have full set of yellow Brembo brakes that I just purchased from a fellow member (front and rear).
I think this will be a good looking combo.. hopefully not too flashy. They are cast wheels but for the price I paid, and this being a truck, weight ended up not being a major concern at the end of the day.
The wheel I got is the Top Right - M510
The finish I got is the Top Middle - Brushed Stainless