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SixBanger: I had a real hard live the first 25/30 years as well (don't want to write my horror story in here though), so I can imagine your feelings. Maybe it helps a bit, when I explain how I got stronger.
What worked for me:
- don't take words serious, the whole world is lying, or just doesn't tell it all.
- don't care what others (might) think.
- the ten most important things in life is YOU! (With kids, this surely changes)
- say what you think, no matter what might happen.
- don't try to help everyone unless you are 100% strong yourself. You will loose to much energy while helping, if you're weak.
My life started at around 30. Now I'm 45 and achieved all and more I ever dreamed of. In just 15 years, including learning a job, studying, make good money, raise a family, build two houses, getting real strong (mental and physical).
From your story, I'm sure you are a strong man already and you can improve real quick.
Disclaimer: sorry, English isn't my first language.
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