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Originally Posted by Billup
Meh, I'm just sour at this point, because I don't know the definition myself. I thought I had, but I thought wrong. I really don't think it will fizzle if you find the right person, I am just being cynical from my own current situation.
Better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all, I suppose.
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I completely agree with the last sentence. My college crush, who turned out to be a big bitch of a person, I still look back at the short happy several weeks of the 'chase'.. even though she was playing me all along. Wouldn't change it for a thing.
I don't like that person now, never would.. guess it's right time right place, right purpose.. everything else seems an afterthought.
My long term gf - did alot of first-time things .. it was a full relationship .. but lol it was the sex that attracted me first, and last yr of college.. don't regret any of that either .. just honestly two totally different feelings
So is it a 'bonus' or does it really matter even?
Billup, you're young man.. so much time to do what you want. That's enough to get you over anything.. not to be insensitive, hold in there